HSPLS site
Login
My List - 0
Help
Search
My Account
Databases
HI Newspaper
eBooks/Audiobooks
Learning
PC Reservation
Reading Program
Basic
Advanced
Power
History
Search:
Title Browse
Author Browse
Subject Browse
Best Seller Browse
Music Title Browse
Video/DVD Title Browse
Journal/Newspaper Title Browse
Serial Title Browse
Series Browse (includes Bestseller List)
General Keyword
Title Keyword
Author Keyword
Subject Keyword
Name Keyword
Series Keyword
Score Title Browse
Talking Book Title Browse
Awards Note Browse
Bib No.
Barcode
Refine Search
> You're searching:
HAWAII STATE PUBLIC LIBRARY SYSTEM
Item Information
Holdings
Summary
More Content
More by this author
Fray, Matthew, author.
Subjects
Fray, Matthew -- Marriage.
Marital conflict.
Marriage -- Psychological aspects.
Married people -- Psychology.
Browse Catalog
by author:
Fray, Matthew, author.
by title:
This is how your mar...
MARC Display
This is how your marriage ends : a hopeful approach to saving relationships / Matthew Fray.
by
Fray, Matthew, author.
New York, NY : HarperOne, an imprint of HarperCollinsPublishers, [2022]
Subjects
Fray, Matthew -- Marriage.
Marital conflict.
Marriage -- Psychological aspects.
Married people -- Psychology.
ISBN:
9780063072251 (hardcover) :
0063072254 (hardcover) :
Description:
viii, 296 pages ; 24 cm
Edition:
First edition.
Contents:
Introduction: The Stories We Tell Ourselves -- This Is How Your Marriage Ends -- Good People Can Be Bad Spouses -- The Invalidation Triple-Threat: The Danger Hiding in the Shadows -- Is Your Spouse Hurting You on Purpose? -- Words Don't Always Mean What We Think They Mean -- Move the Dots Closer: Key Relationship Skills to Practice and Master -- Marriage and the Man Card -- She Feels Like Your Mom and Doesn't Want to . . . -- Sex, Lies, and Internet Porn -- What Matters vs. What Doesn't -- Conclusion: The Art of Getting to Tomorrow.
Requests:
0
Summary:
"Good People Are Bad At Relationships One night during his divorce, after one too many vodkas and a call with a phone-in-therapist who told him to "journal his feelings," Matthew Fray started a blog attempting to piece together the story of how his ex-wife went from the 18-year-old college freshman who adored him to the angry woman who thought he was an asshole before she left him to have sex with someone else. It turned out that even though he was a decent guy, he was kind of a shitty husband. But as he shared raw, uncomfortable, and darkly humorous first-person stories about the lessons he'd learned from his failed marriage, a peculiar thing happened: Matthew started to gain a following. And in January 2016 a post he wrote titled "She Divorced Me Because I left the Dishes by the Sink" went viral and was read over four million times. Written from the lens of his own surprising, life-changing experience and his years counseling couples, Matthew Fray captures what is at the root of so many failed relationships. We simply haven't been taught any of the necessary skills. And in fact, it is sometimes the assumption that we are acting on good intentions that leads to alienating our partners and fomenting mistrust. A candid take and groundbreaking book on relationships that shows us that good people can be terrible partners and the ways we can strive to improve, no matter what stage of life we're in"--
Copy/Holding information
Location
Collection
Call No.
Status
Aina Haina Public Library
Adult Nonfiction
306.872 Fr
Checked In
Add Copy to MyList
Hawaii State Library
Social Science & Philosophy
306.872 Fr
Checked In
Add Copy to MyList
Kapolei Public Library
Adult Nonfiction
306.872 Fr
Checked In
Add Copy to MyList
Pearl City Public Library
Adult Nonfiction
306.872 Fr
Transit
Add Copy to MyList
Horizon Information Portal 3.25_9884
© 2001-2013
SirsiDynix
All rights reserved.